Warning: This post is only for those who have an open mind and have the capacity to create a paradigm shift from the norms set by our biased society. This article is not made to make you stumble in your belief and perspective in the art of getting what you want. This is written to empower women and holds nothing against the opposite sex. But if you are a male chauvinist, please don’t continue to read (except if you’re prepared to have a cerebral hemorrhage! at your own risk then…)… Thank you very much.
Well, hello Independent Woman!!!….. This post is for you…. But first you have to say “Veni, Vidi, Vici!”
JANE, KING OF THE JUNGLE
(From the best seller series LOTHARIO…Desiring Drew)
Imagine this. He comes crawling to lick your toes at the snap of your fingers. He waits patiently for you to finally shift your attention to him. He asks you nicely and reverently what you want. You tell him and he listens and takes everything you tell him to heart. He obliges all your wishes humbly with everything in him.
A fantasy you might say. It doesn’t happen in the real world. But why can’t it happen? Why can’t we rule this planet for a change? We are certainly equipped for the task.
More often that not, even the most liberated Pinays settle for second or third best, not really their first choice of mates because they bulk at the idea of actually pursuing their dream men like that- like a dream, like a goal, like an ambition.
Society dictates that it is degrading to go after a man. It reeks of desperation. But when a man pursues a woman with typical male aggressiveness, he becomes more appealing to the opposite sex. The hunter gets his prey, as it should always be since time immemorial. Now, that has always been a major crime in Planet Venus. And the worst part there is we are the ones who uphold such crime by refusing to move away from that mold society has imprisoned us in, though no choice of our own. But now, for crying out loud, we already have it! The choice!
So you may ask yourself, why can’t I choose my mate? And why would my choice of a mate run from me when I decide to choose him? Shouldn’t he stay put and consider my proposal like a practical businessman? After all, I am offering him the best of me. The answer is yes, he damned well should! And by God, you would make him listen!
We work so hard to make our individual marks in this world, to prove our worth. As independent women, we aim for financial stability, to have our dream house and car, to travel abroad, to get promoted at work. Not having any ambition is a crime to most modern Filipinas.
So why not apply the same principle in getting the man of our dreams? Don’t we deserve to choose who we want to be with rather than wait for anybody who has the guts to approach us whom we don’t often like anyway- and go for whom we really want? Why does this privilege only favor the men when we can avail of this freedom if only we have the courage to be truly free?
Why don’t we become the hunter for a change? yeah, the aggressor. The dominant species. The predator. The ruler of this planet!
Take this. A woman can achieve multiple orgasm. A man cannot. A woman can procreate using only one sperm. Even with a healthy egg at hand, a man is not physically equipped to carry a life within his body. Eve made made Adam bite the apple and caused the damnation to mankind.
Come on, do we need more stats, ladies?
The planet is ours, actually, since the dawn of time. We have always been the stronger species. Never ever think that you owe anybody the right to be who you really are, what you want to be and what you want to have.
Own your space.
Set your sights on him, your perfect mate and say the magic words,”Veni, Vidi, Vici!”
Go get him, girl!